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The Science of Happiness Are you happy?

The Science of Happiness Are you happy?  Many people say they feel happier during the holidays. But I'm not happy. I saw two sisters interview "Giggle Twins," two sisters who were so happy all the time. A film crew found them annoying to be around. The twins laughed all the time. It wasn't because of anything their parents did. The girls were separated at birth and didn't meet until they were in their 30s. "Probably 50% of happiness is genetic," says twins researcher Thomas Bouchard. Other research with brain scans shows babies who smile a lot usually have more electrical activity in their left prefrontal cortex. I volunteered for a scan. My brain scan showed less activity in that part of my brain I point out. "You need to find what works for you," "Depends upon different for different people."  the list were activities I do often, like using social media. "We're not crazy,"  "We're doing it because we think we ...

The three Ways To Love Someone So Well That They Feel Secure In Your Relationship

T he three Ways To Love Someone So Well That They Feel Secure In Your Relationship According to attachment theory in psychology, loving well is about building a secure emotional connection with your partner. how human beings respond in relationships when hurt, separated from loved ones, or perceiving a threat." not sustaining healthy relationships. Attachment research on adults has shown the same is true for adult relationships. adults who are loved unconditionally feel secure in their skin and in the world around them, which gives them the ability to choose a securely attached relationship, too. Healthy relationships require a secure emotional connection. When we have a strong emotional connection and are securely attached to our lover, our relationship can flourish. When you're in a securely attached relationship, your heart and mind shift, making a compromise and sacrificial love seem second nature. You become "other" focused. You no longer need the world to revol...

Does only human body define us a human

Does only human body define us a human ʙᴇɪɴɢ ᴀ ғᴏʀᴍ ᴏғ ʜᴜᴍᴀɴ ʙᴏᴅʏ ɴᴇᴠᴇʀ ᴅᴇᴄʟᴀʀᴇ ᴜs 'ᴀ ʜᴜᴍᴀɴ '. ᴡᴇ ᴅᴏ ɴᴏᴛ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴀɴʏᴛʜɪɴɢ ʙᴇᴛᴛᴇʀ ᴛʜᴀɴ  ᴏᴛʜᴇʀ sᴘᴇᴄɪᴇs ɪғ ᴡᴇ ᴄᴏᴍᴘᴀʀᴇ ᴏᴜʀ ʙᴏᴅʏ. ᴡʜᴀᴛᴇᴠᴇʀ ʙᴏᴅʏ ᴘᴀʀᴛs ᴡᴇ ʜᴀᴠᴇ,ɪᴛ's ᴀʟᴍᴏsᴛ sɪᴍɪʟᴀʀ ᴛᴏ ᴀɴɪᴍᴀʟs ᴏʀ ᴏᴛʜᴇʀ sᴘᴇᴄɪᴇs. ᴇᴠᴇɴ sᴏᴍᴇ ᴏғ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ʙᴇᴛᴛᴇʀ ǫᴜᴀʟɪᴛʏ ᴛʜᴀɴ ᴡᴇ ʜᴀᴠᴇ. ᴡᴇ ᴇᴀᴛ,sʟᴇᴇᴘ,ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴜɴɪᴄᴀᴛᴇ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜɪɴᴋ,ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴅᴏ ᴛʜᴇ sᴀᴍᴇ. ᴡᴇ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ғᴀᴍɪʟɪᴇs ᴀs ᴛʜᴇʏ ʜᴀᴠᴇ! ᴛʜᴇɴ ᴡʜᴀᴛ's ᴛʜᴇ ᴅɪғғᴇʀᴇɴᴄᴇ? ᴡʜʏ ᴡᴇ ᴄᴀʟʟ ᴏᴜʀsᴇʟᴠᴇs ʙᴇᴛᴛᴇʀ ᴏʀ 'ʜᴜᴍᴀɴ'? ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴍᴀᴋᴇs ᴜs ʜᴜᴍᴀɴ? ? sᴏᴍᴇ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴡɪʟʟ sᴀʏ ɪɴᴛᴇʟʟɪɢᴇɴᴄʏ,ᴏᴜʀ ᴀʙɪʟɪᴛʏ ᴛᴏ sᴏʟᴠᴇ ᴘʀᴏʙʟᴇᴍs ᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴘʟᴇxɪᴛʏ ,ᴇᴍᴏᴛɪᴏɴs..ɪғ ᴛʜɪs ɪs ᴛʜᴇ ᴀɴsᴡᴇʀ ᴛʜᴇɴ ʟᴇᴛ's ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴀ ʟᴏᴏᴋ ᴏɴ ᴛʜᴇsᴇ ғᴀᴄᴛs!... ᴄᴀʟᴇᴅᴏɴɪᴀɴ ᴄʀᴏᴡs ᴄᴀɴ sᴏʟᴠᴇ ᴘʀᴏʙʟᴇᴍs ᴀɴᴅ ʙᴜɪʟᴅ ᴛᴏᴏʟs, ᴀɴᴅ ᴄᴀɴ sᴏʟᴠᴇ ᴍᴜʟᴛɪᴘʟᴇ-sᴛᴇᴘ ᴘᴜᴢᴢʟᴇs ᴛʜᴀᴛ ʀᴇǫᴜɪʀᴇ ᴀ ᴘʟᴀɴ. ɢᴏʀɪʟʟᴀs ᴀɴᴅ ᴄʜɪᴍᴘᴀɴᴢᴇᴇs ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴘᴀɪɴᴛᴇᴅ ᴘɪᴄᴛᴜʀᴇs ᴏғ ʙɪʀᴅs, ᴅᴇsᴄʀɪʙɪɴɢ (ᴛʜʀᴏᴜɢʜ sɪɢɴ ʟᴀɴɢᴜᴀɢᴇ) ᴛʜᴀᴛ ɪs ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴡᴇʀᴇ ᴛʀʏɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ᴄʀᴇᴀᴛᴇ. ɪғ ᴛʜᴇʏ ʜᴀᴅ ᴀ ɢᴏᴀʟ ɪɴ ᴍɪɴᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇɴ ᴍᴀᴅᴇ ɪᴛ, ɪs ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴀ sɪɢɴ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴛʜᴇʏ ʜᴀᴅ ɪɴᴛʀᴏsᴘᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴ? ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴀʀ...

Unpredictable Mumbai struggle

Unpredictable Mumbai struggle  Mumbai: A dream city where millions of people come to fulfill their dreams. It is said that this city has the power to polish your destiny. It never sleeps, and never gets  tired. it  has glamour, money, freedom, fame, and limelight. And this limelight drag dreamers towards it. They step in with bags of hope. But do they make it up? Do they feel the same way after reaching their dream city? How do they manage? What do they give to this city in return? Do they get what they are looking for? Let's start with the basics. According to an estimate approx 2000 strugglers come to Mumbai every day. the cost of living there is 40k per month and long route traveling. Do you think everyone can afford this? No, because there is no easy end to it. Sometimes it goes beyond 10 years. So they start living in chawl, old construction buildings, or mahata buildings to save money on sharing bases, where you will see 4-5 people in a room. They stay together. And...